I don't know how to deal with this.
My dad left again.  This is the second time he's done this.  It's been two years since the last time.

he left because of the same reason.

my oldest sister.

she's the only person my mom and dad fight about.  The only thing they strongly disagree upon.


"molly, give me a hug"
"where are you going?"
"I need to get away for a couple of days. I love you."

it breaks my heart.  and it hurts really bad.
I hate crying. 

 
   

 


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SaikotikGunman on
Re: Give me a chance to hold on.
At least he comes back.

I kind of understand though...
eyesthebye on
Re: Give me a chance to hold on.
That has to be so very hard for you. No wonder you are frustrated with your sister.
Problem is it leaves you and your mum alone with your sister.
Is he afraid of how he might react to her?
mollyrosemond on
Re: Give me a chance to hold on.
the list of why I'm frustrated with my sister is long. 
it doesn't leave us alone.  My brother, his girlfriend, and my nephew live with me too.
he's not afraid of how he'll react to her because this has happened before.  My mom and dad will get into a fight about where my sister is going with her life, or how she sleeps in until 2:00, and my mom will defend my sister, my dad will be offended, they walk on egg shells around one another, and he leaves for a couple of days.  all because of her.
eyesthebye on
Re: Give me a chance to hold on.
Your parents would probably not be open to it right now but a family counseling session might be good where an independent person comes in and tries to help you with family strategies. We tried it a few times. My daughter ( the angry one) hated it but eventually she changed her way of communicating.


There are groups like Alateen where groups like AA have a place where groups of teenagers meet to talk about how they deal with addiction issues in the family.
mollyrosemond on
Re: Give me a chance to hold on.
your right about the parents not wanting to go.
My dad didn't even tell my mom that he left.  I just had to inform her myself.

*sigh*

I think I need to take a vacation.
eyesthebye on
Re: Give me a chance to hold on.
I don't blame you. You need a break from it too.
mellomc on
Re: Give me a chance to hold on.
If you need to talk, just let me know.
mollyrosemond on
Re: Give me a chance to hold on.
I do need to talk.
but I don't know what to say.

mellomc on
Re: Give me a chance to hold on.
I do not have an aol im but my yahoo is shipsacoming if you want to add me.  I have never had a parent leave right in front of me but I could at least be a sounding board for you.

 

mollyrosemond on
Re: Give me a chance to hold on.
alright.. thank you
callie69 on
Re: Give me a chance to hold on.
((hugs)) i know you are hurt, i wish it didn't hurt
mollyrosemond on
Re: Give me a chance to hold on.:
:\..
it's alright.. I'll get through  it.  thanks for your concern <33
insaneangel on
Re: Give me a chance to hold on.
if you need some one to talk to who understands haveing family whos addicted and th troubles it causes you can always reach me on messangers hun i know its hard . Have you parents tried to get her in rehab ?
mollyrosemond on
Re: Give me a chance to hold on.
it's not the whole rehab thing.. they just feel differently about her and where she is in her life and they argue about it.
thank you though, I really appreciate it<3333

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