I was a real jerk to the hurricane vic yesterday.  I feel bad about it and I did call to apoligize but I got her voice mail.  The first time I called I did not leave an apology but the second time I did.  I was an immature jerk to her and I feel real bad about it.  Let me explain.

I had promised her that on Sunday morning she could come over and do some cleaning around the house while I did some work on the house.  I was going to pay her for what she was going to be doing at $10.00/hr.  She had originaly told me that she would be ready around noon so I stayed up late Saturday night, had a few brews and slept in Sunday morning.  Well the phone rang twice around 9:00 and and it was her.  So I answered and she was wanting to come over then and do some work.  So that was cool with me so I got up and got ready. 

She called a little later to say that one of her new friends, Pam, had a low sugar level and needed to go and get her something from the store to help her out.  That was fine so I asked her to call me when she was ready.  I was a little pissed off about that because I thought we had somthing set and this woman was old enough to take care of herself( I had already met her once, she is in her 40's or something close to that).  But that was my first mistake.  Getting irritated at her.

So I sat around and thought I would go and get some breakfast and wait on her.  Just as I pulled up to Shoney's the cell phone rang again.  She was still not ready.  I then just told her we could do this another time and we haggled a bit and then I hung up.  I lost count of how many times she called me and finally I turned the phone off.  That was mistakes two and three.

I was an immature jerk to her and fell through on my word.  I heard today she was really looking forward to coming over and making some cash so I feel extra bad.  I tried to call her later today but got the hotel answering service for her room and did not leave a message.  The ball is in her court now. 

You would think that as an adult I would have gotten over doing stupid immature things to other people.  I guess not.  I need to be better than that.

 
   

 


 
 
ahhfreakingrr on
Re: Me admitting I was a jerk
Perhaps I'm missing something here but if she really wanted to go there and make some extra cash she should have stuck to her word and gotten there around noon...
mellomc on
Re: Me admitting I was a jerk
That was my first thought which intiated my attitude.  However upon further review, it was really no big deal and I could have waited an hour or so till she did what she felt she had to do.  The girl does not have many friends and any of them she could latch on to that are worthwhile like this one is supposed to be was worth a little more of my consideration.  However, should this become a habit when offered, I will have no patience for stuff like that.
kyrianne on
Re: Me admitting I was a jerk
i really admire that you can recognize your mistakes and admit to them.
mellomc on
Re: Me admitting I was a jerk
Sucks being mature sometimes !!!
kyrianne on
Re: Me admitting I was a jerk
true, that

 
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