My second sister, Sarah, has been with Austin for almost 4 years. Austin left for the guards this summer. They wrote everyday, she flew out when she was allowed. And when he graduated from Basic they talked on the phone everyday. When Sarah started out at UND this year she met with Andrew. Oddly enough, I used to like this guy, and when Andrew told me he was going to UND last year, I prayed he would not end up meeting my sister. Because I had a bad feeling or because I would be jealous that he'd like her, I wasn't sure. But no matter what, I just didn't want those two meeting.

On day one, they met. Since then, they've been together every day/talked every day. Today I get a text.

"I am horrible person." To which I thought, yeah she is. Anyway, I asked her why. So she told me she likes Andrew. Who wants her to leave Austin. Because Andrew has made her question every bit of the last 4 years. She thinks Andrew would be better for her. But she can't leave Austin. Andrew gave her the option. Him or Austin, she picked Austin. And now she's lost Andrew because he can't stand liking her and not having anything back.

Austin likes country music. Austin was in Sarah's class. They grew up together. He's tall and buff. He wrestled and played football in High School. He dresses from American Eagle, Hollister, Aero...ya know.

Andrew likes heavy metal. He grew up in a bigger city. He's average height and very thin. He was in the band in High School. Dresses from Hot Topic, Spencers...ya know.

I told her she's bored with Austin, because he's not around. And she likes Andrew now and will for a while because she's curious. So she can leave Austin, go with Andrew, find out what he'sreally like, crawl back to Austin who will have already left her.

I used to like Andrew while I was dating Brandon for about a year. I stuck around long enough to find out what Andrew's really like, and stayed with Brandon. Who broke up with me about four months later. Which Austin just might do to Sarah when he gets back. But hey, I wouldn't trade those last four months for the world.