But "we" simply means more than one person.

The President is giving a speech and says, "We must work together to end this recession...," he's not only speaking about himself and his wife.

So this is my new thing.  When I say we I mean my hubby and I.  Otherwise I'll say my fam. and I.  Problem solved.  As for Emily.  Expect the tadpole to go where ever she does for the next 2.5 years SOLID.