hey there, just saw ur blog from my views thingy..
erm well.. hope u dun mind but this is what i have to say,
this steps might be of help to you..
1) motivate yourself
ask yourself why do u keep on doing that? for who do you do those things? what is your purpose? is that still your passion?
2) start today
dont start tomorrow or the next day, start being honest with yourself. start doing things that would help you.
3) no shortcuts
dont take any shortcuts, you cant get to what you want that easily, you first accept the reason why u went there. and take the road ahead of you
4) find an inspiration
find someone or something or a goal for you to be inspired. it'll boost your morale and eagerness to achieve what you want, to achieve your ultimate passion
5) be happy
after u had done all the steps, try to be happy. if your not happy there must be wrong, go back to step 1 - 4, look for something that's missing, something essential to you.. and maybe ull find what u really want..
i hope i helped a bit..^^ goodluck then..
erm well.. hope u dun mind but this is what i have to say,
this steps might be of help to you..
1) motivate yourself
ask yourself why do u keep on doing that? for who do you do those things? what is your purpose? is that still your passion?
2) start today
dont start tomorrow or the next day, start being honest with yourself. start doing things that would help you.
3) no shortcuts
dont take any shortcuts, you cant get to what you want that easily, you first accept the reason why u went there. and take the road ahead of you
4) find an inspiration
find someone or something or a goal for you to be inspired. it'll boost your morale and eagerness to achieve what you want, to achieve your ultimate passion
5) be happy
after u had done all the steps, try to be happy. if your not happy there must be wrong, go back to step 1 - 4, look for something that's missing, something essential to you.. and maybe ull find what u really want..
i hope i helped a bit..^^ goodluck then..
Thanks, yeah those are alot of the questions that i need to ask myself and need to find the answers to. it did help. thank you for the help.
your welcome..
It may have been a phase as well, an interest that has died out perhaps? Nobody should ever feel obligated to do anything they don't want to in life. This seems to be how alot of people feel when they're in a dead end job. But it's their families and co-workers that keep them dealing with the job regardless of how much they feel obligated to fulfill a position. I sometimes feel like this when I go to work, but at the same time I've also become a supervisor of a team, so if my morale is lost then so is theirs as attitude reflects leadership. But it may be hard to deal with, but if you're feeling like this isn't something you really don't want to do, I'm sure those affected will understand sooner or later. I mean I would think of it as, is it more selfish for me to continue doing something I don't want to for the sake of others, or would it be more selfish for others to misunderstand my wishes which would ultimately make the decision even harder to deal with? I mean I would obviously choose my own wishes over the wishes of others, and I'm sure they probably would as well. It may not be easy, but it may also be a calling being neglected to do something you may even end up appreciating even more. Just as it was stated by Thomas Jefferson in the Declaration of Independence, "Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness." these are the facts of life, to pursuit happiness, at all costs. Best of luck to you! 
yeah i decided today that im going to start it out as a break and if i ever want to go back have that option but if not it will just be something that leaves my life. yes i do need to pursue my happiness whatever it may be in and hopefully i will be able to find it. thank you for your support.
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