A few weeks ago I tossed around the idea of a road trip to NC for next week. It will be Spring break here. Today I just realized I have not seen my Mom since my Dad died 2 years ago. She has never even met my youngest child. For the past year I have kept in mind that my Mom was going to sell her house and move in with us, so it didn't cross my mind too much to go down there and visit. I've called the kennel and reserved space for my dogs. I can call and cancel at any time. Right now I'm waiting to hear back from my husband what he thinks about this idea. He won't care if I go or not. I just want his opinion.

 

Boarding the dogs will cost $341 for 11 nights. They are also both due for kennel cough, distemper, and fecal checks. I wasn't going to pay for the fecal and distemper until I had them groomed in a couple months. The good thing is that they will each get a free bath before they come back home. These dogs are filthy, and sooooo need a bath! It's about a 15 hour drive, so that will most likely mean a stop in a hotel each way. The halfway point is around DC. My bestfriend lives in DC, but she is also in NC visiting her parents, and getting a new dog. I might save the money and stay at her place on the way back up because she is going home before me.

 

I'm still undecided about this trip. It would mean all that way with 4 kids, and none of them are old enough to stay alone in the car. At least I don't think so. My oldest will be 9 tomorrow, so I think by law, she is too young to be with the other 3 even long enough for me to go in somewhere and pee. I have gone to a Quick Stop to get milk and left them all in the car, parked right out front where I can see, with the doors locked, and car running. They all know to stay in their seats and always do. The little guys haven't figured out how to unbuckle their carseats yet. I've called and reserved the kennel space. Now I have a ton of laundry, and packing to do. Plus the van to clean that has been neglected all winter because it's been too damn cold to vacuum it. I think I'm insane for considering this, and if I do this road trip I'll be insane at least by the time I return to NY. The good thing is that I plan to stock my mother's house with at least $300 of groceries, and toiletries while I'm there. She has no spare money, and practically can't pay all her bills since my Dad died. My 46 year old brother does nothing to help her out. His idea of a job is selling his plasma twice a week!!! That's a whole other post which I decided to spare you, and write about my possible trip instead. I'll post if I decide to go. Then if you don't hear from me again you'll know it's because I've been locked in a padded cell!

 
   

 


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be42677 on
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Omgosh!  Quite a big adventure you have ahead of you!!!  I wish you a lot of luck on your trip - it's going to be a bit rough with the little ones but it'll also provide a ton of great family road trip memories..."remember the time mom took all of us to see grandma...?"  heehee! 

 

It's to bad Dale isn't going to be home sooner so you could all go togehter.  Still, it'll be nice for you to see your mom.  Will this be a surprise visit or is she aware of you possibly coming?  I was going to say you should book her a flight to come to you instead for a mini-vacation of her own, but you said she needs her pantry and fridge stocked so, yeah, it'd be good for you to go down there to help her out. 

 

Have a great trip!  I am sure you will have a lot of fun stories to share! 

katmanndoo on
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Yes, it definately would have been quite the adventure. We have always done road trips. No airplanes for us. You can't pack much that way. Forget about flying with a pack n play! Anyway, we aren't going now, and I'll post about that in a bit.
be42677 on
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I saw on your myspace that you are upset with your mom...  uh oh!  ???
olokun on
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Sounds like a nice little adventure. The most challenging part seems to be that they are too young to sit in the car alone; makes restroom stops for you difficult, but then again we moms are like superwomen. Have a fantastic trip!
katmanndoo on
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It would have been a fun trip. We are like superwoman, even more so for us military moms! I'll post about why we aren't going in a little bit.
josiejunk on
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If you do decide to go then I wish you many good times and lots of patience   I think you should go, I know that's easy for me to say, I'm not gonna be the one with 4 kids in a car, but it will be so worth it in the end.

katmanndoo on
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I really wanted to go. I was excited about it, but we aren't going now, and I'm pretty pissed off. I'll post about it in a few minutes though.
josiejunk on
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Oh, I'm sorry

labsnabys on
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I've done quite a few 9-10 hour drives with my two boys, so I know a tiny bit of what your trip might be like.  I'm sure you can handle it, but yes the potty stops and overnight hotel stops will be a challenge.  Don't overpack on clothes if you can do laundry at your mom's...that is the mistake I always make.  I have a packing list that I've used for years now and just modify based on their ages and what season it is.  When you have to bring loads of things like diapers and wipes, it makes packing that much more of a challenge!  Remember that you can always shop for that stuff when you get there.  I remember you telling us about your brother...no change there, eh?  Good luck with your decision and your planning...let us know if you decide to go!
katmanndoo on
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We always do road trips everywhere we go, and seems like we have always had kids, even though that's not true. I appreciate the advice. I had already decided to only pack for a few days, and wash and rewear cause of limited space. However, we aren't going now. I'll post about it so I don't have to type it out 6 times.
wonderingsoul on
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Insanity, maybe...but I think it's a fabulous idea!  And if you do go the padded cell route, I'll send you something nice and soft and *safe* to entertain yourself with. 
katmanndoo on
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Thanks so much for the laugh! I'm pretty pissed off at this point, and will post about it. So I needed that chuckle about the soft, safe, entertaining gift. ((((((Kimmie)))))) Really needed it!
wonderingsoul on
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Sure, no problem!  Remember you said that when I start pegging marshmallows at you!    (((((Kat))))
katmanndoo on
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If you are going to start pegging marshmallows at me you should at least give me a marshmallow shooting gun to go with them. hehe
wonderingsoul on
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oooh, fun!!  but would the gun parts be too dangerous?  i wouldn't want you beating yourself or someone else over the head with it.  the only way marshmallows could really hurt you is if they are rock hard stale or if you choked on them.  *note to self: do not stick marshmallows up nose*
katmanndoo on
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ROFL!! No, don't put marshmallows up the nose! Yes, I suppose the hard plastic parts could be dangerous.
wonderingsoul on
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Hmm....so if I distract the looney bin guards with the marshmallows up my nose, then you can hit 'em over the head with the hard plastic gun, and voila - we have rescued you from the rubber room! 
katmanndoo on
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I'm sure that distraction would work beautifully! Although I think if I had taken that trip, AND knowing how my mother feels, I probably would need to stay in the rubber room. Besides, it would be quite entertaining to watch the marshmallows bounce off the walls. hehe
wonderingsoul on
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lol, that would be fun!  but i'd also worry about you using the gun on your mother and then having to bail you out of jail.

 

that reads a lot worse than i meant it, lol!


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