So it's started... Yet another frivolous escape...

Online date sites


 

At first I was just curious to what online dating could hold in store for me, however now it's become some what of an obsession.

 

I first got into this new found world of the online single guys and single gals (or so their online profile says), when I caught a glimpse of my Dad's emails.

 

For those who need an update, my parents split like bread at the end of last year. Which, fyi, has been a long time coming. However, from what I can gather, they're both starting to date (despite outright denying it, we really know what's going on here).

 

So Mummy's done her thing... As she does... And Daddy... Has gone onto the online side of things. And thus, trying to push me into the long forgotten and very scary world of dating.

 

After convincing myself that I could get a partner or a "date" IRL, however it would be much easier and less complicated and more of a social experiment than doing this for real (and I would have to meet them face to face for a good couple of weeks, and we all know how nervous I get when the guy I fancy comes up and the hands start sweating and I can't get a word out, and if I do, it often ends in disaster...) to go down the online dating side.

 

So I wondered to myself, how easy is it to find a date out there in the bowls of cyber space? What kind of people hang out in these little recluse areas often shunned as the "wrong" place for meeting someone who:

a. Isn't a geek

b. Doesn't want to exploit you for money or sex

 

I've been told the cocktail bars work wonders. However, I'm still curious...

 

And so I've become suckered into this world of online dating, and so follows my schedule. Date nights fall under Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays with the weekends being "friend" and "sport" slots.

 

It's actually quiet fun, playing this game of cat and mouse, am I interested, was I interested, am I ever going to be interested again? No? Okay. Hit the delete button and move onto the 20 or so other guys who've sent me "kisses" or more daringly, "emails".

 

It's quit strange. I'm quit intrigued. And slightly addicted.

 

However I don't think this is going to lead to the be all and end all of my dating life. Nor is it really the start. Just another avenue to explore.

 

Keep you posted.

 

Later Days.

 
   

 


 
 
six24 on
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Online dating never really produced much for me more than just a distraction from reality.  Especially when the dating sites charge you money to try to "flirt" with someone.  F that I say.
imaginaryfriend on
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I concer. Something to pass the time away. It's kind of fun though, the game you can play. So far, I've spent no money, however have recieved over 50+ emails in a week.... Strange how the world works.
six24 on
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Wow, well the site you're on must allow for free emailing.  The ones I used never did.  You could wink and poke and flirt for free, but emailing cost you.  Or maybe that's to send an email ... but recieving emails is free?  I don't know but if you're having fun, awesome =D
imaginaryfriend on
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Sending emails costs heaps. But recieving is free. Kind of strange...

six24 on
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There's a joke about paying to be a slut in there somewhere ... I'm just too lazy to find it ...
imaginaryfriend on
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"You could wink and poke and flirt for free, but emailing cost you"

 

Well, he did pay for coffee... But I don't know if it will go any further...

six24 on
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Well if you'll take that as the joke, then I'll take the credit for it ;-)

Well if he looks like the picture ... then hopefully he'll take you to the moon ;-)
imaginaryfriend on
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Hehe... Yeh... We'll see...

 

Update No. 2, Wednesday.

six24 on
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Awesome, I look forward to it =)
b9cherry on
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online dating.. hmm.. well if you're looking for a long romance.. i wouldn't suggest it.. but if you just want to meet people, friends etc.. then it can be fun..

hello myspace..
altho.. online dating can kill the boredom a little.. always a good thing.. or you can be a bitch and compare yourself to other ppl on the site and feel better about yourself.. ^_^ lol
askjesse on
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I haven't tried any online dating service. I was on Okcupid.com for a while for the quizes but they also match you up with people based on your answers to questions... I found it intriguing... the matches were always interesting people... in a way, I think online matchmaking sites are the future of dating... much better than blind dates and speed dating. 
imaginaryfriend on
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But online dating is like a blind date. For instance, the picture you load up could be years old. I was dabbling with the situation thinking, should I put a younger, much cuter, with better hair, one of me up or leave it down to a more recent one I haven't come to terms with yet?

 

I went on my first date the other night... And it was a bit of a shock... Seeing as the other person had done the later... And had to explain to me why he didn't have as much hair as in the photo... And why his body shape wasn't "athletic" as described.

 

So I think online dating is like a blind date. You never know what you're going to come across. And as for the speed dating side of things, date #3 for  this week coming up tomorrow. I'm scared... Somewhat.


 
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