Since it's been awhile since I've been here and I have no one specific item to share at present, I will take this opportunity to just expunge on a few thoughts before the weekend.

Tomorrow is my 33rd birthday. Seriously (and I say this every year), it really doesn't feel like it. Aside from the normal social expectancies that most people assume will occur in their lives by this age (ie; marriage, kids, house, inability to smile), I have avoided the personal interest traps that many willingly dive into by this age. Most people by this age it seems are all too willing to give up what they were once so passionate about in order to blend into the herd more easily. Why bother attempting to stand out when you can buy a bag filled with Affliction t-shirts and learn to like Bon Jovi and Dancing With The Stars? Pass. I've long since embraced my personal interests and nerd-isms with no slowing down. Though it may not net me that kind of life others desire until they actually acquire it, I still feel I'll get more out of watching Afro Samurai and Frisky Dingo. All I seem to share with married people in my age group at this point is the lack of intimacy (at present), but not of my own volition, I assure you.

As a birthday present to self, I went to the Chicago Theatre to see Speaker Series 2009 with Bill Maher and Ann Coulter. Being that this is Chicago, the crowd heavily leaned left but there were Ann Coulter fans to be found. Overall, it was an excellent experience and, for me, a chance to see Bill Maher live as I am a fan. At one point, Ann Coulter took it upon herself to refer to the entire crowd as "a room full of idiots". Prior to this, she made a point to state how she does not like to judge people for their personal lives and decisions. Interesting how this woman thinks one thing, does the other and deludes herself into justification in her own head. In a way, I'm sort of jealous that she can be so delusional and live in her own head the way she does.

As for this weekend, I have some plans in the works of sorts. Actually, it's back down to the theatre district to see "A Bronx Tale" at the Cadillac Palace. It's kind of weird to me that I feel like I'm becoming somewhat of a theater fan, but I do like the change of pace from movies and the like.
 
   

 


 
 
harleygirl on
Re: They'll Ask For My Help....And I'll Look At Them And Say "Fro"
I think its great that you do not feel pressured into the "norm".

Ann Coulter is nuts. Smiley

A very Happy 33rd Birthday to you!
xiolablue on
Re: They'll Ask For My Help....And I'll Look At Them And Say "Fro"
HAPPY BERFDAY!!!!

i too.....do not follow or blend in with the crowd.


ann coulter is bi-polar.
nicholeo on
Re: They'll Ask For My Help....And I'll Look At Them And Say "Fro"
I succeeded to endure my 33 bday, (upcoming to 34 in may *gasp*) Your correct in the thinking of not feeling "your age".  I feel the same as I did 10 years ago, (albiet, not as naive) I do not lack intimacy (perhaps that is because technically we aren't married lol) but the time has come that the thought is there of "where in the hell did the years go?"  Its puzzling to really examine this phenomenon, seems like yesterday, I was going to concerts and meeting bands (now I am taking my kids to concerts in hopes they don't meet the bands).  While times do change, it is great that you stay focused on who you are, and not who you "ought" to be... good for you.  (I get grief all the time because of my (what do you call them? nerdisms?) I play video games, d & d, and I have lived in the same apartment complex for 10 years... People want to know when are you going to settle down, buy a house, etc, etc...fact of the matter, I like not having to shovel my sidewalks and driveways, or mowing my yard... I like having money, and being debt free and not paying 400.00 a month in electric... I may buy another house someday (I was a homeowner at 19, and sold it when I divorced) but , I like my life... I own my vehicles, I live within my means... I wanna know where it came from that I needed 12 mastercards and visas and owing 5 grand on each, and living in a house I can't afford, and buying 2 brand new cars that I will be paying on for the next 6 years.... *PBBBBT* sorry I am rambling... my point (back to that) Is, you have to do what makes you happy... and living for someone elses opionion...well, that doesn't fit in my lifestyle either. Happy birthday Brian... I hope you celebrate it... well, your way. *hugs to you*

 
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