Like everyone says, I don't update this enough. It occurs to me that huge changes have taken place, which I really should have written about.

First off, I found someone. She's actually someone I met on Mindsay, some of you guys know her, so for the moment, I'm going to keep her identity close to my chest. The most I'll say here and now is that she is wonderful, kind, shockingly supportive, and my best friend in the world. And hot - did I mention hot? And those legs, the way she walks when . . Anyway.

We've known each other for a few months now, met here right after my wife and I split up. Our relationship is moving, by any normal standard, way too fast. Thing is, she has such maturity, and we've both been hurt in relationships before, so we are taking everything so carefully, it doesn't really matter that we're moving too fast. My co-workers say that I am totally crazy. I can't reply in any way other than to shrug and say that, logically, I can't think of any reason why this wouldn't work.

But now it gets weird. Yesterday, (wednesday 4/16/08) the wife flew out here with her boyfriend, so they could rent a truck and figure out what they want to take.

If you've read the other stuff on this blog, you'll know that I don't really bear any animosity for my wife. I don't agree with her decisions, but I think she's doing what she has to do (and, without trying to sound like a dick, I think I'm better off . . .).

So, yeah. It's not like there's any fighting over the sofa or anything. I mean, she does want one of the XBoxes, which is a little painful, but then again, I've got three of them. I can't really complain. :)

Anyway, so she's staying with her boyfriend in the guest bedroom (I wouldn't send them away to a hotel, not when the guest bedroom is right there). And right now, while I'm at work today, she and her boyfriend are packing up stuff with the help of my girlfriend . . .

Yeah, this isn't weird at all. . .
 
   

 


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whitedevil on
Re: My girlfriend, my wife, and the man in my house.
Nor is it in any way awkward
gamecoder on
Re: My girlfriend, my wife, and the man in my house.
What could be awkward? You mean when my wife and her boyfriend start making jokes about nearly joining the mile-high club on the flight out? Nope, nothing awkward here . . .
peachesnpeaches on
Re: My girlfriend, my wife, and the man in my house.
Hmmm,  I think I'd rather be in your shoes than my shoes (tells you something about my life at the present)  but yeah, awkward, but if you can do it, more power to you.

Best wishes with the girlfriend.  I'm glad you have someone.
hdan on
Re: My girlfriend, my wife, and the man in my house.
As long as your new gf is hotter than her new bf, you win!

 

Seriously though - I've heard that second relationships often develop quickly since the people involved are generally more in tune with what they're looking for.

gamecoder on
Re: My girlfriend, my wife, and the man in my house.
Well, I'm gonna plead the fifth on that, partially due to personal preference (not into guys), and partially because I think the ex might read this.
gamecoderwife on
Re: My girlfriend, my wife, and the man in my house.
Yep, the ex read it.  I'm glad you are happy.  And, yeah, I'm not into girls any more than you are into guys, but I'll still say that you won the looks contest.
Andreux on
Re: My girlfriend, my wife, and the man in my house.
oh wow lol
ifothelawon on
Re: My girlfriend, my wife, and the man in my house.
Um. I am going through something nearly identical... It is extremely awkward. Do we even still live in the same city?
gamecoder on
Re: My girlfriend, my wife, and the man in my house.
Yikes, you're kidding! It seems like just yesterday you were blogging about your wedding. I'm so sorry, hon.

But no, I don't think we still live in the same city. I've moved to Maryland now.
ifothelawon on
Re: My girlfriend, my wife, and the man in my house.
Ah, very cool. I got my degree from UMUC.

It was two years ago since I was blogging about my wedding and I haven't really blogged since... It's been a long two years. I might be back, though. I'm in the computing industry now, too, though, and I don't enjoy being on computers much once work is over.

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