Me: God I hate how this dryer /washer is set up!  << in a very disgruntled overly whiney voice. It's a pain in the ass! ( the doors open into one another-front loading)

Hubby: Let me do it then, Its not a pain in the ass for me.

Me: playfully whiney now: No..*I"M* DOING it..

Him: yanks the sheets outta my hands..

I start scurrying to get them crammed into the dryer, by heaping them on the dryer door.

He yells at me, you're gonna break the door, they are too heavy!

Well, you get the picture.. we both started to laugh.. I clutched my sides, cause they hurt from coughing.  But we were laughing cause we always said we were never going to be like his parents...they fuss at each other for the silliest of things, but it usually boils down to one thinks they are right all the time and the other of course thinks the way they do things is THE right way to do it.

We don't have to be right. They don't have to be wrong. I got this quote today in my email after my hubby and I tussled over the sheets:

Everything is valid and everything is truthful, because Law of Attraction lets everything be. The question is not whether it's right or wrong, whether their approach is right or wrong, or whether my approach is right or wrong. The question is: Does their approach feel good to me? And if it doesn't, then I choose a different approach.

Perfect. I like changing the way I think! :)