some guys don't like the in-the-face kind of girl..

nice, quiet, shy...kind of girls are more girlfriend material.

Eye contact and smile hahahahaha

I hope this guy is one of them...cuz I'm anything but an in-the-face kind of girl.

seriously, it's the worse thing to compare yourself to anyone else because we mostly focus on the negatives and then zoom in on that.. and that's dangerous.. and you know why???/

let me tell you why....!!!

because then you think it's all over.. when it even hasn't started.. and you might have won the race.. !

And yes, I agree that I shouldn't compare myself to other girls (cuz I do focus on the negative things, I'll admit that), but it's hard not to when that's what I've done since my dad started calling me ugly and fat.

http://www.muddyjeep.com/images/my_babe.jpg

no offense to this chick, but this is what you call fat and ugly.

and seriosuly, if we both went clubbing together, I can bet that you'd be the first one to get picked up!

I reckon, our hearts get broken because we allow the person to break it. Be strong. And say to yourself "If he doesn't like me, his loss. Not mine. I can survive without him. I don't need him, I just want him"

(ofcourse, always easier said than done!)

Well I don't think I'd get picked up first, I ddon't think I look confident enough, pretty enough, skinny enough.

I think the same thing. Maybe we put TOO much trust in the person, and then that's why we get broken--because we lose them in the end.

I also think that I am not pretty enough.. skinny enough.. funny enough..smart enough.. and trust me, the list goes on. (probably helped if I stuck a pic up online!)
But I am who I am. We are who we are. Nothing should be changed. Nothing can be changed.

And you don't always need confidence to win someone over....

But boys like a confident girl...not TOO confident though.

no one is perfect!

I like my smile and eyes, that's about all..... lol.

good on ya.