Well....we're here when you're ready to vent! ~HUGZ~

It's not so much a vent as a release of tears and feelings that I don't feel that I can share just yet.  I've discovered a few things about myself and my soulmate that I was not prepared for.  My husband has changed, his spirit is broken, and I feel that he is no more.  I can't explain it, it just hurts so bad right now that I've had to shut off my emotions or lose it.

He isn't broken Rose he is still there just beaten down a bit but he will resurface when he gets home and be even stronger.. Faith darlin have faith in Jim and yourself it will be better.

The change is part of the process. He has to be broken down to be rebuilt so he can become the soldier that the U.S. Army wants him to be. But we warned you that he would change, so now the dynamic of the relationship must change as well. He will readjust, it will just take time. Your best bet is just to be prepared to help him through.

yay, just what i wanted.  yes I know I warned, everybody "warned me" I'm not lashing out, juts tired of being "warned" I'd love to be there to help him becuase he needs the help. Just one question though?

when do I get the help I need?

We are all here to listen. Just say the word.