I can't believe that coward didn't have enough shame to stay away from you

It is almost sick

Just praying he and mom are kept apart

True evil

Wow, now that you are grown up don't let him influence you. Fight back!!! It's good to be angry and what a relieve that you shared it with your mom.

It was a relief getting it out in the open

oh, (((((((((((((baby fishy))))))))))))!!  i am so sorry to hear about your grammy!!!  you have my condolences, straight from the heart.

 

i know i haven't been around, so maybe i shouldn't say this.....but i will anyway.  YOU have nothing to be ashamed of...that man does.  consider confronting the basterd, with your family standing beside and behind  you....i truly believe it is the only way to heal yourself; you've got to lance the abcess that has been festering these many years.  i feel fairly certain that you may not be the only child this pond scum molested...

 

much love, punkin.

 

xoxox,

 

snuggs

Lady it doesn't matter how much your here or not your advice and huggs are always always welcomed. I really didn't think about him hurting another child. I really have a lot to think about

This was his secret, not yours.  By finally telling someone, you have stepped away from the control he has had over you all these years.  He is family only in the biological sense. 

Those men generally ARE serial offenders.  You can be almost 100% sure there are others he has molested - lots.  You may not want to carry the matter so far, but If you want to pursue a legal case the statute of limitation in the state where it happened may either not exist or provide that if the child was under 18 when molested, a case can be made even if the report is made decades after the assault.

I checked and its too late. Everything is too late. P I don't know what to do. I don't know how to move

My dear...it's amazing how those feelings never leave, isn't it, even after years of thinking you're past it?  It's good you opened up and hope taking some time will help you settle your thoughts.

I know.  Please let me know if you need anything.

Just need you to keep me in your prayers. Im not in a good place...took leave from work