Ok so we are taught to tell the truth and be honest.Those of you that have children stand before them and say never lie, but never , never throw your friend under the bus. Don't be a rat. Don't be a know it all. Don't be that person always running tothe teacher or the boss " I know something you ned to know" don't be a "tattler", tattle tale, . But at the same time time we tr to teach HONESTY.

This week as I do with everything else in my life I had to decide on doing the RIGHT THING/THE BEST FOR ME/THE BEST THING FO THE OTHER PARTY /WHAT WOULD MOM DO/

 

 

Mom could not help me make my choice and there was no chance in me asking the person involved "hey should I go and rat you out, the right thing and the best thing for me were two totally seperate doors leading to two different venues but I am willing to begin the journey. I have to do what is best for my heart and my well being. I have to be able to look at myself in the mirror and if one day my neice should ask me "auntie what should I do if such and such......" I want to be able to know my answer is something I did and not something I wish I did.

 

 

 

AND IF I HAVE TO BE A RAT I LIKE TH COLOR YELLOW NOT BROWN!

 
   

 


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christianisrael on
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This stuff is always difficult.  Courage, sis!  Pray and then do right.
d72fish on
Re: Rat
If not for having doing wrong so many times in the pas doing right would not be so hard
porkchopper on
Re: Rat
A tough situation, but your reasoning is sound.

d72fish on
Re: Rat
Very tough and while I regret it I would regret not doing anything more

twentypearls94 on
Re: Rat
you can't plead the fifth?
d72fish on
Re: Rat
No camers and the fact that with my luck the roles would be changed and I would be her
Andieland on
Re: Rat
Well, you can't feel guilty with the guilty, I think. You do have to live with your choices.
d72fish on
Re: Rat
I am learning that I can not afford to carry this baggage.....
Andieland on
Re: Rat
You know as well as I do that doing the right thing isn't alwasy the easiest and sometimes it costs us. It might cost a friend or a relationship, or even alittle pride but, if in the long run, if it's going to cost you any of your self worth or compromise any of your values it's not worth it. No matter how hard it may be to deal with right now.

d72fish on
Re: Rat
As much as I am learning to grow and bend as far as others feelings I share your beliefs on compromising on my own values. I know in the end it will pay off

ty sis

Andieland on
Re: Rat
Yep Smiley

iliketiedye on
Re: Rat
((((hugs))))

good post ..... and beautiful reasoning ..... do as you would want your niece to do later in life ..... my thoughts are with you .....

Peace.  J.
d72fish on
Re: Rat
Thank you sister girl

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