I finally heard from Irish! I caught him on the internet last night and we talked until midnight (6 am over there).

We actually got to talking about what is going on with us now that he is back home. Because of the lack of any good solutions we almost just ended things.  We figured that would only make us more miserable than we already are, so now we are back to square one.  I know no solution doesnt change anything, but it makes me feel a hell of a lot better that we actually talked about it. At least I know where he stands.

 

This morning during my mid-morning funk I got a call from an annonomous number. I hesitated to pick it up, but I'm glad I did! Irish was calling to talk about last nights conversation and to tell me he got his Skype working. It was so nice to hear his voice. When I realized it was him on the other end, I actually started to cry. I hope he didnt notice. On a positive side, his accent is a bit thicker now that he is back home. haha.

 

Anyone have any clue how to handle a relationship over the Atlantic?!

 

 

 

 
   

 


 
 
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Re: Damn Atlantic
My only insight: no matter how difficult distance is to deal with... if dealing with the distance is easier than dealing with the absence of the person in your life - then you know it's worth it.

Long term, one of you will have to be willing to move.  I don't know if that's something you need to worry about for now.  If I remember correctly, there are plans in place for him to come back to the U.S. and for you to go to Ireland.  I'd say for now you just focus on enjoying eachother via the communication methods you have available... and see how it goes.  You just have one more year of school?  Then... Europe bound perhaps?

 
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