singleAnd I do agree that Americans are becoming more obsessed with sex than previous generations. Although, I wonder if it's a result of our society's outlook on how sex and nudity are portrayed in media.
With that being said, I had a conversation with Abbey and another co-worker we'll call Hilary, on account of the fact that she irritates you like Hilary off of the "Fresh Prince of Bel Air", so fake. I've never cared for her since I met her, but that's another story. Anyways, I was recounting a conversation I had earlier in the week with our mutual friend GA Peach about my up and coming trip. Peach told me to make sure I took plenty of rubbers (she actually said condoms with her southern belle twang, but I hate that word...it's like saying prophylactic). I told them what I told Peach, I don't get down like that. They were like why not? Imagine my shock. Please keep in mind that everyone is married.
Now, I'm far from a prude but I do try and maintain a few mortals now that I'm older. Like everyone, I've done questionable things, but contrary to popular belief, I don't share those things with everyone regardless if it’s trendy or acceptable.
But lately, I've been told by several married chicks that it's okay to have one night stands, it's okay to fuck random guys when you're out of state, All because I'm single. Gimme me a fucking break.
I think we single and not so single women are more sexually promiscuous these days because we're in a pissing contest with men. If you can do it, so can we! But the thing is that we, women, forget is we're not men. We don't think like them. They can have no emotional repercussions from fucking a broad and not even knowing her name, unless they get caught by their woman, of course. lol
We, women on the other hand are emotional and plus we're dealing with the whole "act like a lady" mantra that's we've been brainwashed with since we were 2 or 3 years old.
So, yes eventually, we can get to that where we can fuck men in the same matter as guys fuck girls, but at what cost? At the cost of being jaded because the guy who’s our friend with benefits doesn’t see us a woman, only has an outlet. At the cost of not meeting any real men, because there are so many women performing stupid porno tricks for free to who ever seems interested. I think it’s a constant struggle.
Now don’t think I’m bitter because I’m not….or that I need to get some ass ASAP. Actually, I do have plans to get laid today. LOL. Seriously, I guess what I’m trying to say is that I wish it wasn’t so PC to be fucking out of control.
Think about it, ten years ago you knew very few adults that would even admit to having a threesome, now we’ve got kids going into college who have a zillion video clips of their group activities stored on their razor phones. Where’s the tenderness! Where’s the afterglow! LMAO
So, here’s my question: Do your actions and conduct in your sex life significantly define you?
