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butterfly81

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I've been soo bad with the whole writing in the blog thing. it used to be that i wrote everyday...sometimes even two or three times a day. now? i guess im losing interest. i dont quite know. i mean i want to write and i have stuff to write about but i get to the whole blog section and just go eh?

not much has really changed in the life of the butterfly...except the whole being married thing. but that shouldnt change a person. i havent changed. though i find myself more exhausted. too much to do and no time to do it. story of my life.

anyway back to the married thing....the one question people ask is how is married life?! i do get the occasional so when do you think you will have a kid? i fucking hate both questions. the latter question i usually respond with oh well we were going to have sex right now wanna come and watch?! ugh do people really want to picture me doin it with hubby? i mean people as in relatives. and the whole married question--married couples ask me that. at times i want to say tell me something mr x did your life change once you got married? did you find yourself in a whole other life that suddenly was for married couples? bc every night hubby and i hold hands while we skip to go off into that magical fucking land filled with roses and daisies. seriously i know people mean well but i havent felt any difference in my relationship. well except now i dont get to sleep in my own bed which i would prefer since i am a bed hog.

mostly though my life consists of me watching my little pug grow and learn. sure we dont have kids (maybe one day) but to me its the same. our pug is our kid. we love her as much as any parent loves their kid. just watching her look around as we walk outside or through the car window puts a smile on my face. shes soo eager to look at the world with these wide open eyes. i can tell when shes happy--she does her doggie smile and when shes laughing. i can tell when shes sad about something and all i want to do is throw my arms around her and give her a huge hug. shes such a great little creature. we are adding another pug into our lil family shortly. just cant get enough of them! i thought i wouldnt want another pug since i love my little one so much but i think she would be happier with a friend to play with during the day.

anyhoo starbucks is calling my name. plus im afraid to type more to see what other fun suggested tags i get Smiley

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Ahhhhh...I remember the days when you blogged regularly... You were one of my first friends here, but when you quite blogging for such a long time I simply removed you from my network. I guess I didn't think you were honestly going to come back and stay...of course now I am not completely confident you will stay, but at least you are in my network.

Anyway, if you really miss sleeping in your own bed, why don't you occassionally? I am not married or anything, but occassionally I simply want to sleep by myself. It isn't because the other person did anything wrong, but rather for that point in time I simply need some space. It is not a long term thing (like me sleeping without my partner for days on end) but rather it ends up only be hoursx before I am back in bed with her (where I belong).

I think that animals are wonderful (but I suppose you couldn't tell that by my zoo). I believe that in a great many ways they are or can be our children. I know that I would be lost without mine - and I love to watch them grow and learn. My oldest is almost 9 and I still love to watch her as she tries out different things...