Why do some girls get offended/grossed out when guys look at pictures of them or think about them while they jerk off? I take it as a compliment and feel quite flattered when guys do that. If a guy is gonna think about me or look at pictures of me- dirty or not- while he beats off, that means one of two things: he thinx i'm hot or he likes me. What's so wrong with that? every now and then a guy will say he likes one of my pictures or that i'm hot and I giggle. Then he says, (not sarcastically but seriously), "oh i'm sorry, i'll stop if you want." Look at me! Why do you think i'd be offended to hear you say i'm good looking to the point that you'd want to fuck me? Maybe that's why i find it so flattering, because my self esteem is so bad, but seriously, with all the shit in society pressuring chiks to be sticks, it makes me feel damn good about myself to know that a guy wants to be with my pudgy ass. I'm not fat, and even though sometimes when i'm depressed I say I am, but i really know that i'm not. I'm not a healthy weight either, though. Anyway, if any one can shed some light on this, thats super.