Hey everyone well it's been a few days since i've been on so i figured i'd give u all an update. Well i haven't talked to my ex b/f since that day he came over and well my friends ex b/f hasn't even tried to call her. So it's been ok so far. Anyways i've been babysitting alot for a 5 year old in like 90 degree weather isn't that just fun. She is such a cutie though. :) Last night was suppose to be a good night. Michele, Kyle, Tim, and I were suppose to go to ABAY to go watch a movie and hang out. Well after her soccer league her dad started to flip out on her for no reason. So she got grounded right in front of a whole shit load of ppl. I was pissed as hell. So she had to go home obiviously and no one knew what had happened or what was said or anything. So the whole night us three went to Applebee's and ate and tried to think of what happened. Well i didn't find out until this morning that she was talking to her mom and then her dad just interupted and started to yell at her and said that she embarassed him and this and that. Then when she got home he was like no cell phone, no phone at all, no friends can come over, u can't go anywhere, u have to do all the house work and make sure suppers ready, and u have to go to ur summer leagues. So pretty much she can't do anything at all for like a month or more. Cuz her dad is stupid and thinks she's shit and wished she was never born. Her dad said if anyone tried to get her out of the house or tried to do something about this he would break their necks. Michele said that her dad said especially Jessica. She said that he was talking about me and saying all this stupid crap about me. All i've ever tried to do was keep her out of trouble and make sure she stays alive. All i've ever tried to do was help her and make his life easier, but that doesn't work i see. No matter what she does it's never good enough for him and she works her ass off doing everything that they tell her to do. I just don't know what to say about it anymore. I just feel like she really really shouldn't be in that postion where her dad could do something and me and her good friends would never see her again. :(  I never knew it might come down to me doing something drastic so she would haven't to go through any of this anymore. If anyone thinks i should do something give some suggetions and i'll see fi they'll work. On another note theres this guy that likes me and we've been friends for awhile like years and years. Well i'm not sure if i should go for it or not considering our friendship is really close. Most of my friends are guys anyways and i was talking to my friend Kyle and he said well i'd rather have someone i knew to date u then have a stranger i don't know and i would want to kick his ass. I was like ya i know and i know he would treat me good but it's that fact that he went out with the bitchface slut (thats the one the stole my b/f and they r together right now). So i just think it would be kind of weird. and we were all friends at one time well until those two fucked me over. So i'm just a little confused on what i should do. Anyways it's early so i can already tell it's going to be a long day. lol :) Well tonight i'm suppose to go see Tim and his band play at Shooties in Watertown. Yeah! Well i'm starving so i'm gonna go. Laterz!
 
   

 


 
 
Ultlpfan on
Re: Still Going To Be A Long Day!!!
Yea I hate it when people have to go through the times with asshole parents.  I don't really think there is much you can do with her besides let her get through this.  Try and support her as much as you can even though her father has put her into a jail.  Why doesn't she go live with her mom if her father is such a dick? Doesn't she get along with her mom or what?  And with your situation I would say if you think it would be weird in any way its really not a good idea to go out.  Do yo really wanna have that weird thing get to be too big and ruin that friendship with him.  I would say think it over a lot cause its a big friendship with him and I know you don't wanna ruin that.  So think it over and good luck.
Loverbug on
Re: Still Going To Be A Long Day!!!
well thanks for ur advice. I've been thinking about my sistuation with him alot. I went and seen his band play last night they r awesome. Then my ex b/f calls and wants to see me and talk over some stuff even though i haven't really talked or seen him in like 9 months. Messed as hell, but who knows. But my friends problem is that he parents r still together so she doesn't have anywheres to turn unless it's me and thats fine with but i just hate that her dad put her in this sistuation all the time every since she was little. I wish we could fixed the world so there were no problems and ppl wouldn't be stupid about stuff. Well i hope ur having a great day so far. If not then i can try to make u smile. lol tty Laterz!
Ultlpfan on
Re: Still Going To Be A Long Day!!!
I think you just need to tell your ex that you are done with him and tell him to stop calling you.  If her parents are still together why doesn't she go and talk to her mom about him and his stupid grounding.  Her mom is letting the dude have all the control.  There's really nothing to can do to get her out cause if shes not 18 then her father can have her arrested and brought back home.
Loverbug on
Re: Still Going To Be A Long Day!!!
well my ex didn't show up today. Well as of yet and i know he won't so he can go shove it. For my friend well her dad is the one in control adn what he says goes no matter what and shes only 16 but shes alot more mature than most ppl her age. I know so thats y i'm not doing anything but i wish i could cuz i don't like her being this way. Thanks for everything. If theres anything u want to talk about go for it ok. Laterz 


 
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