I really like to make guys feel good. And yes, of course that sounds normal, but I also mean sexually. which again, is probably pretty common, but I don't know if it's to an extreme. I suppose it most likely isn't abnormal, that I would want to pleasure those I care about.

But it just makes me really happy, and aroused sometimes. But even happiness that isn't sexual, it just brings me joy to make a guy have an orgasm.

I feel really disappointed if I try and don't succeed. It's only happened, once, but it made me sad. We weren't even going out. It's not about relationship I don't think, but I don't really know. I don't talk to many girls... so I don't have anything to compare with.

Could it be psychological? Is it a problem? I don't know... I just know that I could even have just met someone, as happened once, and I was playing with his little friend. I know it's not necessarily a sexual thing. I enjoy playing with it even when not involved in sexual activity, really. Like watching a movie, playing video games, etc. It usually turns him on, but I generally just like the feeling of it in my hands. And then, making him orgasm if we decide to engage in that.

Maybe it's a physical thing? I just like the touch, and to know how he is feeling. And having the power to make him feel good. Control or power, or just enjoying his pleasure? I don't know... It's kind of an obsession. But maybe not. I've never really talked to anyone about it. What do you think? Can anyone relate? >.<
 
   

 


 
 
misterskank on
Re: I love to please
You're going to make a lot of male friends, dear, and there is some danger in that.

Not every guy will stop when you do.

I do fear for you.
DarkSalem on
Re: I love to please
Yea...considering I also tend to like guys who treat me bad...
bahamat on
Re: I love to please
sounds like instinct
it's only a bad thing if it makes you/other people feel bad overall - there may be sad times, but depends on the overall
As the type of guy I am, I've only ever had hookers, and I was 21 when that happened, the thought that some guys + girls generally seem to get laid + have relationships so much more just seems to be because of the way society is in what it likes
DarkSalem on
Re: I love to please
Not to be annoying,but I'm having trouble understanding your messages sometimes, do you think you could try using some more punctuation, like periods? It would help with clarity. Thank you.

I don't think it makes me feel bad. I wonder if it's normal, which I know I am pretty far from. I guess I like it, obviously. I just don't know if other guys see it that way. Just because I play with their friend, doesn't mean I'm interested in a relationship... I haven't had any trouble with that yet, but it could come up. I suppose if it does, I'll deal with it then. It just may not be accepted by some people, which I suppose doesn't matter that much. It's me and my life, and my hands. I can do what I want with them.

I guess yeah, it all depends on what you like.
bahamat on
Re: I love to please
I'll try to be more punctuated, I think I have my own unique way of talking lol

I suppose it depends on whether the guy knows the score - if they are clear that you only want fun, it might be better. Still though, they could fall for you anyway. I wouldn't be surprised if there were lots of other women who liked to please, to me it does sound like a natural thing, but I don't know enough to really say for sure, esp as I'm male
DarkSalem on
Re: I love to please
Thank you. : )

Yeah... I don't really know why, if there's any further reason behind the act itself. What makes it sound natural, to you?
bahamat on
Re: I love to please
Thinking about what sex is, there's no obvious logical reason for anyone to want to do it with another person, but we do - being a guy I also cannot understand why women like men, but I'm sure that works vice versa. We have instincts, and to me what you described just sounded like part of that. Generally, wanting to please a guy would increase your chances of reproducing in terms of evolution. For me and a lot of people, lust is hard to put to one side - feelings aren't always logical, like there's no obvious reason to me why things like loneliness or boredom or embarressment need to register generally.
DarkSalem on
Re: I love to please
I don't have sex with them, though. I just play with it.

And yea... feelings are almost never logical.
Blademaster777 on
Re: I love to please
I would imagine that what you describe is not greatly uncommon
DarkSalem on
Re: I love to please
Just uncommon to me, because I don't talk to other people, really.
fallingangle25 on
Re: I love to please
actuly what they call aperson with this is a nyphomaniac.ther are some docor that treat this like a dezise .to tell if your trully a ninphyo ask yourself if you hafe to have it kinda like a drug then can you go a day 2 days  or more with out it if you need it like a drug adic would need drugs then your a nympho then it depens on you if you want help with it  it a phyicaloigical dezise.if u choose not to do anything about it just protectyourself. if this is not what u want to hear i am sorry i know i can be blunt and harsh its just who i am
DarkSalem on
Re: I love to please
Nope. I can go without it. And I don't have sex, I just play with it. And blunt is usually best. I don't like sugar coating. 
fallingangle25 on
Re: I love to please
Good becase I dont sugar coat any thing.Then if it makes you happy do it.But if the guy dont get gratifacatin he might have something else on his mind.Also you might be right.
DarkSalem on
Re: I love to please
that's the way I like it. Sugar belongs on candy! : )

Something else on his mind? That makes sense. Not that he'd ever tell me what.

I might be right about what?
fallingangle25 on
Re: I love to please
That it could be psycological or physical.Than again it could be both. who knows.
DarkSalem on
Re: I love to please
Who knows indeed.

 
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