So, today was ridiculous. It started when I went down the hall to get the kids, and Z came running down the hall. Apparently E was running by, but I didn’t see him. Anyway, I told Z that we don’t do that, and he started cursing up a storm; the only way to describe the face of the little kids who were there with us was sheer terror. Anyway, so there’s cursing, and then there was him slamming his boots bag into my crotch, and then kicking me, and throwing his bookbag at me. I had to get Larry, who got him to walk down, but I told C that Z had to go to the t.o. room. We told him, and he wasn’t thrilled, but he went in voluntarily.  Wanted to come out during the movie’s ending, but we decided that was a no. Claudia went in to sit with him.
So at about this time, Robin walks in with A. I guess I looked at his face, so she tells me that this weekend he was out of control, and that she had to grab him by the face to get him back to her. I was uncomfortable with the mark, so I told Claudia, who told me to go tell Jackie. I went to Jackie, who told me to bring A down. It took some time, but I got him down. We tried to get him to talk about it, but he wouldn’t. He said mom had hurt his feelings, but she didn’t hurt his body (though she’d admitted to me she had). Then he said something along the lines of, “if I tell mom will get in trouble and go to jail” so clearly, this has been told to him before.
D made threats at A who was annoying him, lost is safe body, and then lost it further by messing with furniture and then leaving the room. OY. Rest of morning wasn’t too incident-y; Z was allowed to go to art with Parker, and then we all went to the caf. We talked to Jackie because while C was in the room with a calm Z, he had thrown books at her and stomped on her foot quite a bit. She said that if he was calm now, we couldn’t send him home because then it sent a bad message. Dammit. Tomorrow, I guess. First thing he does as assault.
I had a meeting with Kate during Erin’s reading time, and then went to Erin’s meeting for a bit. Came back to SS which took some prompting but I got Z and then A to do it (E and D were in T.O. having already done it and doing read aloud). Recess Z and I were outside, and A had been picked up early. Science was…rough start. E had HAD it with Z, didn’t want to hear about Science since it was solid/liq/gas and he ‘knew that already’, and some other stuff. Then Z started being unsafe w/ pencil, so C and P got that away, but he kicked her, so we got him to the t.o. room and it again took a while for him to calm down. He’s escalating.
 
   

 


 
 
goodnightsong on
Re: Monday Before Break
This Z personally didn't act this way. Despite my childhood trauma, I was a very quiet young man. I feel for you......
1styearteacher on
Re: Monday Before Break
I feel so sorry for this child.

I mean, his birth parents screwed him up, his 'mom' (grandma) is NUTS and screwed him up, and he was never sent to school really before this year (he went for 4/5 months in 1st grade and was kicked out, and now he's a 4th grader), and now he's being expected to know how to behave and he has no idea.

So I understand that.

But at the same time... no right to spit in my face or kick me in the shin or call me whatever derogatory swear satisfies him.  There are limits, and he's surpassing them. 
goodnightsong on
Re: Monday Before Break
Very true. Someone, somewhere, sometime will have to show him how to act like a young man should. I know it must be frustrating, but don't think your efforts are in vain. One day something you've done or said will affect him in some way, and though he may or may not remember where that goodness came from......you will have impacted his life in a good way.
1styearteacher on
Re: Monday Before Break
I do believe that, which is why I refused to quit on him, and why I miss him so much right now, even though my room is so much calmer with him not there.

I wanted to reach him so badly.
goodnightsong on
Re: Monday Before Break
Wanted is a past tense word. I still believe his young mind soaked in everything, and you may never know you reached him, but he will. And the work you are doing takes a special, strong person to do, and I can see you have these qualities in abundance and more. Keep up the good work!
1styearteacher on
Re: Monday Before Break
I can only hope you're right.
goodnightsong on
Re: Monday Before Break
You don't have to hope. Read your March5, 851pm comment. Deep inside you believe or you wouldn't be doing what you are.
1styearteacher on
Re: Monday Before Break
thank you.
goodnightsong on
Re: Monday Before Break
Very welcome.

 
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